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Post by Big Lin on Feb 16, 2013 23:50:55 GMT
HOW HEALTHY IS YOUR BEHAVIOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP - DO THE QUIZ! (Swop guy for gal, him for her where needed)
1) a guy/gal shows interest in you and asks you out on a date. You don't fancy him/her that much because you get a bad vibe from them. What do you do?
A: Say yes because he/she might grow on you and their very persistent. B: tell him/her to f$$k off! C: your single but you pretend you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend. D: tell him/her firmly that your not interested.
2) you have a new guy/gal you have been with him/her for 2 weeks. Your Bessie mate wants to meet you on Saturday but your guy/gal doesn't want to go. He says he will hang around the town centre and wait for you. What do you agree on?
A: tell him if he doesn't come out with you and your mate, not to bother your done with his crap!
B: when he asks what time your coming back you give him some cock and bull story about the train breaking down.
C: tell him ok you will cut short your evening with your mate.
D: tell him firmly you will see him another night instead as its gonna be a late one.
3) you tell your partner that your going on a girlie night out and your fella says text me when you get home so I know you got home safely. What do you say.
A: ok I will.
B: your worried I might cop off with some other guy! Well you know what I might just do that!
C: im an independent woman and I've manged to stay safe for many years so I would rather not text you.
D: tell him your crap at texting when you've had a few drinks but if you remember you will try.
4) your starting to notice just how controlling he is what do you do?
A: think your being parionoid, I mean why would he want to do that?
B: phone a domestic violence hotline to see if what your noticing is control and what you should do.
C: start to test him and set a trap to see if he's a big lier.
D: tell him in no uncertain terms that if he ever pulls stunts like that again you will make his life hell.
5) you over hear him chatting up your mate and can see he's gonna move in for the kill. He sees you have spotted him and he goes off on one about you eyeing up one of his friends. What happens?
A: you bash him over the head with a bottle and say if i ever catch you at it again I will meet you down an alleyway with a base ball bat!
B: wonder why he still thinks you fancy his mate and protest again that you don't.
C: flirt with his friend to make him jealous.
D: tell him his paranoia or pretence that you fancy his friend Is a separate matter that you can discuss at another time. At the moment you want to discuss why he was flirting with your mate and that if he is going to continually disrespect you you will have to seriously think about ending the relationship as you deserve better.
Answer honestly giving an a, b, c, or d answer you may need to write the answers down.
Passive answers 1a, 2c, 3a, 4a, 5b if you answered mostly from this group then I feel you are giving your power away. Your allowing partners to get their needs met and not yours. Their is an element of nievty here as well. Think about getting your needs met more often and ways you could be more assertive.
Manipulative answers 1c, 2b, 3d, 4c, 5c if you answered mostly from this group it shows that you lack honesty, and tend to play games with others. You use manipulation to get your own way. Sometimes your not brave enough to be direct with others. In future try being straight it makes for a much easier less complicated life.
Aggressive answers 1b, 2a, 3b, 4d, 5a if you answered mostly from this group it shows that you are aggressive and have little respect for others. Two wrongs don't make a right and behaving like a bully is not going to lead you down the path to happiness. Consider that you just might get your way more often and in an easier fashion if you become more assertive instead.
Assertive answers 1d, 2d, 3c, 4b, 5d if you answered mainly from this group this shows that your straight with people and whilst you won't tolerate any crap you ask for what you want in a pleasant manner. This is the healthiest group and will lead you to an easier life and greater happiness. Well done!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2013 8:48:52 GMT
I'm guessing that you copied and pasted this from somewhere. Am I right?
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Post by Hunny on Feb 17, 2013 8:50:58 GMT
It says I'm assertive.
;D
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2013 11:26:29 GMT
I can't do this , none of the answers match what I would do. ( it's probably because I"m not 16 any more lol)
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2013 18:13:28 GMT
I can't do this , none of the answers match what I would do. ( it's probably because I"m not 16 any more lol) I realised I was too old for Cosmopolitan when one of its quizzes asked the question "why do you go to parties?" None of their answers provided the reason I accepted invitations.... ...for the food!
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Post by Big Lin on Feb 17, 2013 22:37:12 GMT
I'm guessing that you copied and pasted this from somewhere. Am I right? A friend sent it to me. I don't know where she got it from!
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Post by Big Lin on Feb 17, 2013 22:39:42 GMT
Most of my answers were a) by the way!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2013 6:53:49 GMT
I'm guessing that you copied and pasted this from somewhere. Am I right? A friend sent it to me. I don't know where she got it from! I guessed it wasn't yours because of the style and the (ahem) incorrect punctuation!
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